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"I am not demanding a crime to commit, but.."
I don't know how our society comes with a belief that prohibits unmarried woman to continue her study to the highest level. It's like committing a sin if a single lady chooses to study PhD abroad without getting married first. I mean, where is the line between married and education. Does a lady should postpone her education until some time in the unknown future just to wait a man or does a lady should marry whomever and sacrificing love then continue her education? Or should we just stay enough educated at master level? Moreover, when the woman gets her PhD and is still single, almost everyone would blame her for being so stubborn not listening to "people" but no one praises her for being more educated in her "waiting time". She fills and uses the time wisely by studying, not committing any single crime. And even study is an activity that makes a person's status increase in front of God since the one gains more knowledge. Even if she stays in a place, is it for sure her mate comes from the same area? Why don't people think of it? What if her mate comes when she studies PhD?
I aware there are worries, but how come people don't understand that everyone has certain DIFFERENT time of getting married, of meeting her/his forever one.. That God has already created creatures in pairs... there's no such logical relation between education level and marriage difficulty.
I am asking and complaining this not only because I am sick of it but also I need the answer if you have one to make me understand the whole part. Thank you.
#sadbuttrue
I don't know how our society comes with a belief that prohibits unmarried woman to continue her study to the highest level. It's like committing a sin if a single lady chooses to study PhD abroad without getting married first. I mean, where is the line between married and education. Does a lady should postpone her education until some time in the unknown future just to wait a man or does a lady should marry whomever and sacrificing love then continue her education? Or should we just stay enough educated at master level? Moreover, when the woman gets her PhD and is still single, almost everyone would blame her for being so stubborn not listening to "people" but no one praises her for being more educated in her "waiting time". She fills and uses the time wisely by studying, not committing any single crime. And even study is an activity that makes a person's status increase in front of God since the one gains more knowledge. Even if she stays in a place, is it for sure her mate comes from the same area? Why don't people think of it? What if her mate comes when she studies PhD?
I aware there are worries, but how come people don't understand that everyone has certain DIFFERENT time of getting married, of meeting her/his forever one.. That God has already created creatures in pairs... there's no such logical relation between education level and marriage difficulty.
I am asking and complaining this not only because I am sick of it but also I need the answer if you have one to make me understand the whole part. Thank you.
#sadbuttrue
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